Confidence Thinking and Human Nature
Confidence thinking is really the mastery of one’s mind. You need to have control over your thoughts and not the other way around.
Once you gain this skill, and it really is just a skill you develop, you then not only think positively, you’ll have an aura of complete confidence and inner peace.
It’s your thought patterns which have the greatest impact on your life. Think about it. If you think everything in your world is horrible and that there’s no hope then how can you possibly change your life for the better?
The good news is that you can change this simply by learning a few techniques to gain mastery over your thoughts.Your negative thoughts now completely control your life.
You start by paying attention to your thoughts. What is that little voice you have in your head saying to you over and over?
Once you start actually hearing these thoughts, you’re going to want to know “How do I stop the negative thoughts in my head” and “How do I gain control over how I automatically react to certain situations?
These are easy to use tips and strategies that will help you change your negative thought patterns into confidence thinking:
1. Think specifically of the time/place/situation you want to feel confident in. Remember ‘confidence’ doesn’t mean anything until you attach it to something specific.
2. Focus on words in your mind right now that describe how you do want to be in that time and place. Maybe words such as ‘calm’, ‘relaxed’ or ‘focused’. Remember your brain works on clear positive instructions.
3. Close your eyes for as long as you like and think about how those words feel. Then, imagine the situation itself and rehearse it in your mind feeling confident and relaxed. This way you set the right blueprint or ‘task’ for your unconscious mind.
You can repeat this often to make it more effective and use it with as many areas of your life as you need to. If you listen to a hypnotic cd or download that can make the benefits even more powerful. So if you feel like you’ve been blessed with less confidence than other people you can start redressing the balance by using your mind in the right way – right now!
It took me years to learn how to be more confident – now you can do it in a fraction of the time. Good luck!